The Toxic-Masculinity-Industrial Complex
How to Get Rich and Famous by Being an Abusive Creep on the Internet, and Why That Needs to Change

In case you haven’t heard the story that took the internet by storm, it goes — deep breath — like this. An online influencer and noted violent misogynistdecided to make fun — for no reason, just out of the blue, because, well, misogynists will be misogynists — of Greta Thunberg. To which she repliedwith the tweet above, which the internet celebrated as a hilariously accurate takedown. It went viral, and said guy — let’s call him a manfluencer — responded with a bizarre video in a bathrobe and a cigar. Next to him was a pizza box. And what happened next? The Romanian authorities swiftly detained him on charges of organised crime and rape.
To which Greta responded: “this is what happens when you don’t recycle your pizza boxes.” Funny? Savage? Ludicrous? All of the above. But also deadly serious. Said guy runs a camgirl “business,” and he’s more or less out of the closet as a trafficker. Don’t take it from me, take it from him, normal guys don’t exactly make remarks like (and trigger warning here for violent misogyny): “It’s bang out the machete, boom in her face and grip her by the neck. Shut up b*tch.” Or, for example:
In one video explaining his reasons for the move he suggested it was because it would be easier to evade rape charges. This is “probably 40% of the reason” he moved there, he says in one video, adding: “I’m not a rapist, but I like the idea of just being able to do what I want. I like being free.
This sordid, gross manfluencer is just one tip of a far larger iceberg. The toxic-masculinity-industrial-complex. What do I mean by that? There are a lot of guys like him, and for some reason, being that kind of guy? Misogynistic, violent, bigoted (because of course hating women is a form of bigotry), loud and proud of it? It’s become a veritable career path. Say this kind of stuff out loud, and you can get rich and famous.
That’s because, in turn, manfluencers are created.
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